When I talk with friends and when I meet someone for the first time I always shake their hand. There are other places that do not shake hands with others and some that shake differently than we do in America. Here we shake hands so many different ways that i never know how someone else will shake hands with me when I try to shake regularly. Another thing is that we do not talk formally to anyone, older people and sometimes even teachers are all just called by their first names. The only times I ever say Mr. or Mrs. is when i meet a girl’s parents or a teacher in school, but I know many people who do not even do that.
I am involved in a group called Young Life. It is a christian group that gets involved at local high schools to tell kids about the bible and how Jesus died so that we could be saved from our sins. We are not a typical christian organization because we do not pressure kids to change their lives around right away, we just show them love and give them something fun to do in their free time. We all get involved in those student’s lives and become close friends with them rather than being authority figures. This group is different from many others because we all care about the kids that we are interracting with and we want to be more involved with them as well.
On thursday i attended CRU at the HUB and listened to a band play; the lead guitarist was wearing flip flops, blue jeans, a dress shirt with the top button unbuttoned, a tie and a suit jacket. The way the giutarist was dressed was very unique, there was no one else in the whole place dressed like that. Another thing i noticed this week was my cousin Shannon who is very good at art, she dresses differently than the rest of us but i really think its cool. I would like to have my own style like she does but I like to wear what is in style. Individuality comes from not caring about what others think of you or what you are wearing, and though I care much less than I did in high school, I still care about what others think of me.